Beauty is often seen as a gift, something to be admired and desired. Society places immense value on physical attractiveness, associating it with success, confidence, and happiness. What happens when beauty becomes a burden? Attractive women are commonly looked upon as subjects of Beauty and are often seen as a gift, something to be admired and desired. Society places immense value on physical attractiveness, associating it with success, confidence, and happiness. But what happens when beauty becomes a burden? When a woman is constantly stared at, analyzed, and objectified, it can take a serious toll on her mental health. What many fail to acknowledge is that beauty comes with a hidden weight—a pressure to meet expectations, a loss of personal space, and a struggle to be seen as more than just a face or a body. This is Foramz and we are talking about attractive women who face scrutiny under creepy gazes. The Weight of Constant Attention For many women, especially those who fit the conventional beauty standards, daily life involves a level of scrutiny that is both exhausting and overwhelming. Walking down the street, sitting in a cafe, or even just walking in a public space might end up feeling uncomfortable fear of people’s creepy glares. For many women, especially those who fit conventional beauty standards, daily life involves a level of scrutiny that is both exhausting and overwhelming. Walking down the street, sitting in a café, or even just existing in public spaces can feel like being on display. Whether it’s subtle glances, lingering stares, or outright gawking, the experience can be deeply unsettling. At first, it might seem harmless—just admiration, right? But over time, it creates an ever-present awareness of being watched. Women find themselves adjusting their clothing, questioning their expressions, and sometimes even altering their behavior to avoid unwanted attention. It fosters a sense of paranoia and self-consciousness, making public spaces feel less safe and more like an arena for judgment. The Pressure to Always Look Perfect The idea that beautiful women “have it easy” is one of the biggest misconceptions. In reality, they are often expected to maintain a flawless appearance at all times. The moment they step out without makeup or wearing casual clothes, they may face comments like, “You look tired,” or, “Are you feeling okay?” This expectation to always be picture-perfect can lead to stress, body dysmorphia, and an unhealthy obsession with appearance. Social media only amplifies this pressure. With every like, comment, and share, women are reminded that their beauty is a currency—one that must be carefully maintained. The fear of “losing” their attractiveness as they age or if they gain weight can create deep insecurities. Instead of feeling confident, many beautiful women feel trapped by their looks, constantly striving to meet unrealistic standards set by others. There have been endless cases of women feeling unmotivated due to their aging genes. Objectification vs. Authentic Connection One of the most painful aspects of being overly admired for one’s looks is the struggle to be valued for more than just appearance. Beautiful women often find themselves questioning the sincerity of relationships—romantic or otherwise. Are people drawn to them because of their personality, intelligence, and values, or simply because they are aesthetically pleasing? In professional settings, this can be even more damaging. Conventionally attractive women may struggle to be taken seriously, their achievements undermined by the assumption that they got ahead because of their looks rather than their skills. Conversely, they may also face resentment, with colleagues assuming they have it easier, leading to exclusion and lack of respect. The Fear Factor: Unwanted Attention and Harassment Beyond self-esteem and identity issues, there’s a darker side to being constantly watched—safety concerns. For many women, excessive attention is not just uncomfortable, it’s dangerous. Staring can escalate into catcalling, stalking, or even assault. The constant fear of being followed or harassed makes simple activities like walking home at night or taking public transportation stressful. Not only this but people often expect attractive women to be “available” They judge women based on their looks thinking they might be available. Women learn to adapt by carrying pepper spray, avoiding eye contact, dressing down, or even changing their route to feel a little safer. This is not the solution to this grave incident. Women learn to adapt by carrying pepper spray, avoiding eye contact, dressing down, or even changing their routes just to feel a little safer. This hyper-vigilance becomes second nature, an unfortunate reality that many endure simply because they are deemed attractive. It might seem from the perspective of a girl, that “she is so pretty” “what problems she might even have” This notion of thinking that looks are everything is false. Attractive and pretty women who fit the beauty standard are under more scrutiny than others. The notion that beauty is everything is completely false in this overly crowded world. In the next blog, we will see in detail how we can do something to overcome this scrutiny of women. and how women can protect themselves from this heinous looks and save their self-esteem. Keep Reading Foramz for your daily dose of moral support.
Written by Mira
Last week, we talked about how women experience changes in their lives. The struggles that Middle-Aged women go through during their growth are an untouched topic. There are various stages of change in a growing woman. The biggest transition occurs in the Middle-Age phase. Middle age is often referred to as a bridge between youth and old age. A stage where 2 personalities coincide, bodies transform and the mind is on high alert about the newly coming transformations. For women, this period is typically defined as the years between 40 and 60. Imagine being a mother who has spent all her life looking out for the family and is now feeling isolated as the children have grown up and have to work as it is their time to strive. In this case, these feeling of isolation is heightened by menopause and other factors. In this blog, we will be discussing all such issues that these strong women experience in middle age in detail so we can help understand them better and empathize with their feelings. Emotions all over the place with Menopause Menopause typically occurs after the age of 40. In simple words, menopause is a process where the ovaries stop producing eggs. Due to this biological halt, hormone levels decrease. As hormones are responsible for regulating emotions in our bodies, their sudden decrease results in emotional distress, mood swings, weight gain, and sleep disturbances. On top of this biological outburst, many women go through a transition in life. Middle age coincides with children leaving home for college or careers. While this is a natural phenomenon, women can feel lost and purposeless. After years of comforting, nurturing, teaching, and scolding a child becomes capable of taking an independent step toward their own life and when the child is finally ready a mother may naturally feel lost without the child. This phenomenon is termed “empty nest syndrome” This sudden change in their daily routine leads to a feeling of loneliness which is never really addressed. Naturally obliged to be selfless the middle-aged woman does not think of it as important of an issue to be addressed. But we should know and notice this and lend an ear sometimes. Middle Age is a stage where women often question their own life choices if they have lived up to their potential. Balancing the roles of mother, partner, professional, and individual can create a sense of overwhelm. As a woman feels torn between fulfilling societal expectations and pursuing personal dreams. Always looking out for others, the woman forgets of her aspirations. The Physical Transformation. Physical changes that Middle-Aged women experience are inevitable and distressing, especially in a society that considers the perfect face, skin color, and hourglass body shape as a beauty standard. Menopause brings with it a host of physical symptoms including hot flashes, night sweats, fatigue, and joint pain. These symptoms disrupt their daily routine paired up with the societal pressure of “keeping it together”. No matter what goes inside the body, women are expected to be calm and composed and undertake their routine professional or household tasks smoothly. This is an unseen pressure from societal standards where issues like menopause have not been discussed enough. Many individuals fail to even know about it. Biologically, aging women experience weight gain due to gradual metabolism, hormonal changes, and a decrease in physical activity. This affects their self-esteem, especially in a culture that glorifies slum, youthful figures. With age women face an increased risk of health issue such as osteoporosis, heart disease and breast cancer. Regular health check-ups and preventive care become crucial, but many women neglect their own health due to caregiving responsibilities or financial constraints. Professional Challenges Middle-aged women in the workforce encounter unique challenges. Women in their 40s and 50s often find themselves overlooked for promotions as companies prioritize younger talent under the guise of “fresh ideas.” Their years of experience and wisdom are undervalued and their contributions remain overshadowed by stereotypes that portray middle-aged women as being addicted to technology. For women who took a career break to raise children, re-entering the workplace becomes an uphill battle. The gap in their resumes is often viewed as a liability and they face challenges coping with the evolving job market. Many middle-aged women juggle professional responsibilities with caregiving roles, whether for aging parents or depending on children. Their switch from a strong and bold employee or leader to a gentle caring daughter or mother is commendable. But these switches cause a mental and Physical toll which often leads to burnout. Social Isolation and Loneliness As a woman ages, she loses friends and he social circle shrinks due to various reasons like busy schedules, geographic relocations, or differing life stages. This leads to feelings of isolation and loneliness which is exacerbated by societal invisibility that Middle-Aged women experience. In the Modern world which is obsessed with youth, Middle-aged women often feel ignored. Advertisements, media, and popular culture rarely represent women in this age group, reinforcing that their best years are already behind them. In some cases, age brings strain in marital relationships as couples face midlife crises, empty nests, or financial pressures. Divorce rates are high among middle-aged couples, leaving many women to navigate this phase of life alone. Financial Problems Financial challenges are a significant concern for middle-aged women, particularly for those who took a break from work to focus on families, many women enter middle age with insufficient retirement funds due to career break or lower-paying jobs. This creates anxiety sense of fear about their future. Eventually, this anxiety becomes a full-grown fear of being a burden to their family. Women who rely on their spouses for financial support face vulnerability. This is prevalent in cases of divorce or the death of a partner. Without personal savings or financial literacy, they may struggle to secure their independence. Cultural and Societal Shackles. Cultural norms and societal expectations add another layer of complexity to the lives of middle-aged women. Society expects women